4OURPLAY Favorites & Room + Hosting Essentials

Link References for 4ourplay’s “creating a sensual atmosphere” interactive session

LINK TO LIGHTS AND OTHER PARTY/hosting ESSENTIALS:

Amazon links: https://www.amazon.com/shop/heybellaluna/list/1XB9J6HUEB25?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_HWE7GJTSANYEJ61WT5VX

MUSIC PLAYLISTS ON YOUTUBE MUSIC:

4OURPLAY Sexy: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLM7tLFRXL57ZmCtaDaZ8EydekTP4aYqOR&si=vFYX5sX61f9s-_pO

Grunge After Dark: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLM7tLFRXL57bG1z4kXt8L5mdWpssaKONF&si=T1tUhWTEfHbahRyB

Songs That Fuck: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLM7tLFRXL57aYremXr04Kg5gW5PQyRqSP&si=7qhP4UskDOuDHt80

4OURPLAY HYPE: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLM7tLFRXL57bcX8ZnQkJU1T7E7Bw8R4Q1&si=hDcjpCZWWW9vVNtf

4P Party Mix: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLM7tLFRXL57Yh7gx7eSuNUIR_MLAaLscg&si=WP3LZtc65fwxF9ml

4OURPLAY Club Mix: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLM7tLFRXL57b25zZXCZbJC8krjX2-fk1x&si=MuB_OFUzA9y146OZ

4OURPLAY GAME:

4OURPLAY Icebreaker Game: https://4ourplay.com/games

Creating a Sexy Environment on Lifestyle Vacations: Quick Reference Guide

1. Introduction

  • Purpose: Elevate the experience for swingers on lifestyle vacations by creating a curated ambiance.

  • Benefits: Comfort, attraction, and sensuality enhance overall enjoyment.

2. Lighting

  • Types:

    • Ambient: Soft lights, usb rechargeable lights, candles, fairy lights.

    • Accent: Highlight specific areas (beds, seating).

    • Dynamic: Use color changing, dimmers, or smart lights for mood changes.

  • Tips: Avoid bright fluorescent lighting; consider portable options for travel.

3. Music

  • Role: Sets pace and enhances mood; helps guests relax.

  • Playlist Tips: Match music to the energy of the evening—early conversational, upbeat during games, and erotic for late-night.

  • Equipment: Portable speakers with adjustable volume.

4. Sexy Visuals

  • Erotic/Suggestive Videos: Softcore, artistic, or abstract visuals.

  • Projection Options: Connect to TV via USB or external drive, HDMI and computer, or use mini projector

  • Tips: Keep volume low; curate visuals to match crowd comfort.

5. Scent and Aroma

  • Impact: Smell influences mood and desire; use aromatherapy.

  • Scent Options: Vanilla, sandalwood, amber, jasmine, lavender, and musk. Mahogany Teakwood from Bath & Body Works can be a sexy option,

  • Methods: Fragrance sprays or essential oil diffusers; avoid candles as it’s a fire hazard.

6. Temperature and Comfort

  • Ideal Temperature: 69-73°F for comfort.

  • Comfort Measures: Extra sheets/blankets; ensure proper ventilation.

7. Practical Considerations

  • Cleanliness: Ask for extra sheets/towels; have discreet cleaning supplies (wipes, towels).

  • Accessibility: Keep protection, toys, and lube easily reachable.

8. Refreshments

  • Hydration: Balance alcoholic drinks with water; keep guests hydrated.

  • Snack Ideas: Non-refrigerated snacks like pretzels, granola bars, mandarin oranges, chocolate.

9. Rules and Boundaries

  • Setting Boundaries: Clear communication is essential for consent and comfort.

  • Group Discussions: Encourage openness about limits; use hand signals for check-ins.

10. Icebreaker Games

  • Foster Connection: Use games to ease nerves and encourage interaction.

  • Examples: 4OURPLAY Game, Two Truths and a Lie, Would You Rather.

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