4OURPLAY Favorites & Room + Hosting Essentials
Link References for 4ourplay’s “creating a sensual atmosphere” interactive session
LINK TO LIGHTS AND OTHER PARTY/hosting ESSENTIALS:
Amazon links: https://www.amazon.com/shop/heybellaluna/list/1XB9J6HUEB25?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_HWE7GJTSANYEJ61WT5VX
MUSIC PLAYLISTS ON YOUTUBE MUSIC:
4OURPLAY Sexy: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLM7tLFRXL57ZmCtaDaZ8EydekTP4aYqOR&si=vFYX5sX61f9s-_pO
Grunge After Dark: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLM7tLFRXL57bG1z4kXt8L5mdWpssaKONF&si=T1tUhWTEfHbahRyB
Songs That Fuck: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLM7tLFRXL57aYremXr04Kg5gW5PQyRqSP&si=7qhP4UskDOuDHt80
4OURPLAY HYPE: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLM7tLFRXL57bcX8ZnQkJU1T7E7Bw8R4Q1&si=hDcjpCZWWW9vVNtf
4P Party Mix: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLM7tLFRXL57Yh7gx7eSuNUIR_MLAaLscg&si=WP3LZtc65fwxF9ml
4OURPLAY Club Mix: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLM7tLFRXL57b25zZXCZbJC8krjX2-fk1x&si=MuB_OFUzA9y146OZ
4OURPLAY GAME:
4OURPLAY Icebreaker Game: https://4ourplay.com/games
Creating a Sexy Environment on Lifestyle Vacations: Quick Reference Guide
1. Introduction
Purpose: Elevate the experience for swingers on lifestyle vacations by creating a curated ambiance.
Benefits: Comfort, attraction, and sensuality enhance overall enjoyment.
2. Lighting
Types:
Ambient: Soft lights, usb rechargeable lights, candles, fairy lights.
Accent: Highlight specific areas (beds, seating).
Dynamic: Use color changing, dimmers, or smart lights for mood changes.
Tips: Avoid bright fluorescent lighting; consider portable options for travel.
3. Music
Role: Sets pace and enhances mood; helps guests relax.
Playlist Tips: Match music to the energy of the evening—early conversational, upbeat during games, and erotic for late-night.
Equipment: Portable speakers with adjustable volume.
4. Sexy Visuals
Erotic/Suggestive Videos: Softcore, artistic, or abstract visuals.
Projection Options: Connect to TV via USB or external drive, HDMI and computer, or use mini projector
Tips: Keep volume low; curate visuals to match crowd comfort.
5. Scent and Aroma
Impact: Smell influences mood and desire; use aromatherapy.
Scent Options: Vanilla, sandalwood, amber, jasmine, lavender, and musk. Mahogany Teakwood from Bath & Body Works can be a sexy option,
Methods: Fragrance sprays or essential oil diffusers; avoid candles as it’s a fire hazard.
6. Temperature and Comfort
Ideal Temperature: 69-73°F for comfort.
Comfort Measures: Extra sheets/blankets; ensure proper ventilation.
7. Practical Considerations
Cleanliness: Ask for extra sheets/towels; have discreet cleaning supplies (wipes, towels).
Accessibility: Keep protection, toys, and lube easily reachable.
8. Refreshments
Hydration: Balance alcoholic drinks with water; keep guests hydrated.
Snack Ideas: Non-refrigerated snacks like pretzels, granola bars, mandarin oranges, chocolate.
9. Rules and Boundaries
Setting Boundaries: Clear communication is essential for consent and comfort.
Group Discussions: Encourage openness about limits; use hand signals for check-ins.
10. Icebreaker Games
Foster Connection: Use games to ease nerves and encourage interaction.
Examples: 4OURPLAY Game, Two Truths and a Lie, Would You Rather.